Religious Greeting Cards

So looking at valentine cards the other day, and noticed how many had religious references. Why do people feel the need to have to mention God in everything in their life?

Can't they just express their love to their partners without needed God?

Each to their own, i'm not a religious person, so I steer clear of the religious ones, just as I do the cheeseball sentimental ones!

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throw them in the bin?

I don't think it's a 'sin'. I recycle mine.

2007-12-31 07:35:05 by .....

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My grandmother always sends me religious-themed birthday cards, knowing that I am of a different faith than she is. I appreciate her thoughtfulness but am hurt by her obvious disregard for me and my choices.

I can't talk to her about it because she's very manipulative and blow everything out of proportion, make me feel extremely guilty and then go tell the rest of the extended family (700+ people) about it.

I am considering "accidentally" sending her a religious greeting card (for people of my religion) for her birthday, but feel this may start a quarrel. Is there proper etiquette for this situation and if so, what is it?
There are lots of good answers and sage advice here! However, there are two points I'd like to clarify:

1) Just because I feel hurt and angry at grandma doesn't mean that I don't love her or appreciate that she thinks of me! If I didn't care about her and her feelings, I wouldn't seek a public consensus or take time to cool down before (and if) talking to her about this.

2) I left our respective religions out on purpose to remove as much bias as possible. I didn't want people "taking sides" based on a preference for beliefs. I learned that lesson the hard way when I asked my mother (sides with Grandma--same religion) and my husband (sides with me, dislikes that religion) about this issue. They both have an agenda, and who wouldn't? Religion's a touchy issue that affects everyone, no matter how objective they try to be. I wanted to keep this a matter of etiquette, not religion.
When I first wrote this question, I had no idea that it would generate over 200 answers! (Picking a best one out of so many good ones is going to be difficult.) Most of these have been very helpful, but a few (and it's a very small few - less than 10 - thank goodness!) have been downright awful, but I knew I was taking that risk when I posted, so it's no biggie. I'm no stranger to cruel people.

For those who have said I'm petty and must be a teenager, my age is clearly listed on my profile. Do not mistake a strong view on a seemingly trite thing for pettiness or immaturity. There are complex interpersonal dynamics at the heart of this matter; the card issue is merely the proverbial "straw that broke the camel's back".

For those that have similar tales to tell, I am glad that I am not alone. I thank each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart.

Proper etiquette...In this situation you really need to take a good look at things, and view the conditions from as many perspectives as possible. You must carefully consider the possible outcomes. You should respect her beliefs, whether she chooses to respect yours or not. Love and respect her for who she is as a person, irrespective of her faith. By sending her a religious greeting card for the people of your religion would only result in your stooping down to her level. Be the mature adult here, and don't let her disregard bother you, and just be accepting and respectful of her beliefs, whether you agree with those beliefs or not.

You're absolutely right, this should not be a matter of religeous differences, but a matter of etiquette, or, moreover, religous etiquette.

Is it possible for you and your husband to calmly speak with your grandmother about these differences, and tell her you feel hurt by her unacceptance? You're her grandchild after all, should she not accept you for who you are, irrespective of your beliefs?

As long as you are comfortable with who you are, strongly believe in what you believe, and accept your grandmother for who she is, there's no reason her improper etiquette should bother you. I realize this is easier said than done.

I wish you well in this, and I believe that talking things out with your grandmother would be the best way to go, or possibly writing her a letter. Be kind and genuine, but realize when you do need to put your foot down.

Good luck,

Sincerely,

Kiara

2006-11-17 09:15:17 by Avie

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HeY wrath of fist.....

Those are not greeting cards.........
Mr Ducky



Any that express happiness or joy for others

greeting cards are suppose to be cheerful

2009-08-23 04:24:47 by Bilbo Baggins

I have several non-Christian friends, but I also have several devoutly religious friends. What can I print in my cards that will cover everyone?

You can always offer a greeting of wishing them the best during the winter season or something.

Take a peek at greeting cards at the store or online to get some ideas and tweak them to fit you.

I've seen some wishing people a safe and healthy New Year, etc.

2008-12-12 09:27:07 by sarahb