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ok i would like to tell the women of the world an experience i went through and i would like you to give an opnion from a distance on the lady i'm about to speak about:

I met her online in 07 in a chat room she initated the contact i spoke to her a few times in the general chat room. She made contact got my email of me and sent me an email along the lines off i;m married but unhappy i dont get any attention of my husband anymore all of that has withered away etc. I was 26 at the time i bit raw and green with online interaction and might i add low on confidence so i proceeded to talk to her for a few months she eventually asked for my fone number which i gave a few week later. She used to ring everyday but i would'nt take her calls i was wary an american lady married a mother of a 7 yold i answered now and again but not frequently. My birthday came around in 07 she said she was gonna send over some gifts a week after my birthday she told me she ha bad news "customs" sent it back im soo sorry. I found that odd but i let it go never questioned it all i said was it's the thought that counts.
Xmas time came i sent her son over $70 nike shoes and her a gold watch and loads of gifts and cards and got nothing in return.
nto early 08 feb /march time suddenly she's dating a guy from England and were just friends i never called anything it off this guy appeared from nowhere. A quick side note she's american from Detroit ,she told me she was in an online relationship for 3 years with a guy from scotland that did'nt work out i was her 2nd online romance this guy the 3rd. We clinged on an on for months telling her maybe its time i get on with my life seeing as your seeing another guy she would then get scared and tell me a day or two later her an this guy were finished. Ide come back like a lemon and they'd be back on again


All of this time she is married telling me she is allegedly going thru a divorce. I met her in early 07 she told me she moved out on her own in late march 09. She said her divorce was delayed last year because her hubby went behind her back with the house. i would also like to add she;s on anti depressants and suffers from panic attacks if that is relavant. I loved her for who she was.


Anyway back to the matter at hand the guy she is seeing is 25 jobless and smokes weed an drinks heavily and goes on binges for weeks at a time every few months and she's mother bringing that into her life ive also founf out the guy in the past was suicidal. Anyway i told her two months back its best if we go out seperate ways and i did'nt talk to her for a week after announcing that. She would leave subtle messages on her email public display notes like "the heart dont lie" " my head tells me to give up but my heart wont let me" designed for me to see . It's like she's playing with my heart stringing me along. Sometimes i feel she wants me and the next day it's like im talking to a different person. She can be sweet and nice and then cruel and ignorant on a dime. I do not know wat to make of her. What to women think of this woman from a far obviously hard to assesee but give me a view from a distance please.

This woman is a loser. It's completely beyond me that you would even find someone like that attractive. She sounds manipulative and if I were you I would stop interacting with her.

2009-05-17 17:34:14 by Dave D

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ok i would like to tell the women of the world an experience i went through and i would like you to give an opnion from a distance on the lady i'm about to speak about:

I met her online in 07 in a chat room she initated the contact i spoke to her a few times in the general chat room. She made contact got my email of me and sent me an email along the lines off i;m married but unhappy i dont get any attention of my husband anymore all of that has withered away etc. I was 26 at the time i bit raw and green with online interaction and might i add low on confidence so i proceeded to talk to her for a few months she eventually asked for my fone number which i gave a few week later. She used to ring everyday but i would'nt take her calls i was wary an american lady married a mother of a 7 yold i answered now and again but not frequently. My birthday came around in 07 she said she was gonna send over some gifts a week after my birthday she told me she ha bad news "customs" sent it back im soo sorry. I found that odd but i let it go never questioned it all i said was it's the thought that counts.
Xmas time came i sent her son over $70 nike shoes and her a gold watch and loads of gifts and cards and got nothing in return.
nto early 08 feb /march time suddenly she's dating a guy from England and were just friends i never called anything it off this guy appeared from nowhere. A quick side note she's american from Detroit ,she told me she was in an online relationship for 3 years with a guy from scotland that did'nt work out i was her 2nd online romance this guy the 3rd. We clinged on an on for months telling her maybe its time i get on with my life seeing as your seeing another guy she would then get scared and tell me a day or two later her an this guy were finished. Ide come back like a lemon and they'd be back on again


All of this time she is married telling me she is allegedly going thru a divorce. I met her in early 07 she told me she moved out on her own in late march 09. She said her divorce was delayed last year because her hubby went behind her back with the house. i would also like to add she;s on anti depressants and suffers from panic attacks if that is relavant. I loved her for who she was.


Anyway back to the matter at hand the guy she is seeing is 25 jobless and smokes weed an drinks heavily and goes on binges for weeks at a time every few months and she's mother bringing that into her life ive also founf out the guy in the past was suicidal. Anyway i told her two months back its best if we go out seperate ways and i did'nt talk to her for a week after announcing that. She would leave subtle messages on her email public display notes like "the heart dont lie" " my head tells me to give up but my heart wont let me" designed for me to see . It's like she's playing with my heart stringing me along. Sometimes i feel she wants me and the next day it's like im talking to a different person. She can be sweet and nice and then cruel and ignorant on a dime. I do not know wat to make of her. What to women think of this woman from a far obviously hard to assesee but give me a view from a distance please.

I had'nt spoken to her ina while and she texted me last Monday week 8 days or soo ago and said i quote " how are you ? I have a question for u if ur not too busy? I replied and said not too bad i hope ur well yourself shoot with the question im all ears. 8-10 days later she has never replied. Odd ehh. Why? u may ask why did i reply ? i dunno i really dont

Long story i know and i tell ua ot drained me emotioanlly . What do women think of this women from afar. Give me some opinions on her.

Sounds like she got her hooks in you and reeled you in big time! DON'T get involved with people you meet online!!
You should have pulled the plug as soon as she told you she was married.
This happens time and time again, people get warned and they do it anyway because they think their situation is different.
Your inner voice (gut feeling) is screaming at you and you're not even listening to that.
I'm not going to give you opinions on her......all you have to do is read what you wrote and her scheme is laid out in black and white. I'd rather give my opinion of you!!......WAKE UP!!!

2009-08-11 16:18:39 by Dave D